Mark J. Kafafian
Home:
Hackettstown, NJ
Date of Death:
January 23, 2010
Age:
45
Birthdate:
October 5, 1964
Place of Birth:
Jersey City, NJ
Service Information:
Thursday, January 28, 2010 10:00 AM Mass at St. Luke Parish, 265 West Mill Rd., Long Valley, NJ
Visitation:
Wednesday, January 27, 2010 4pm-8pm at William J. Leber Funeral Home, Chester, NJ
Interment:
Pleasant Hill Cemetery, Chester, NJ

Mark J. Kafafian, of Long Valley, formerly of Toms River, passed away on January 23, 2010. Mark was born in 1964 to Kathleen (Brook) and Leon in Jersey City, New Jersey. He was the youngest of three children and a Certified Public Accountant by profession, receiving his accounting degree from Georgian Court University in South Jersey. It was while attending Georgian Court that he met Audrey Geer, his beloved wife of 21 years.

Mark began his accounting career in South Jersey, later relocating to Long Valley to form the partnership of Frizzell and Kafafian in Newton, which eventually became Frizzell, Kafafian, and Devries. Mark provided a wide range of services to a growing client base over the years, and was highly regarded not only for his professionalism and expertise but also for his integrity and compassion. Mark was often sought out by members of his community for advice and guidance, and he graciously gave of himself to all. The many people who had the good fortune to call him friend attest to his big heart, gentle spirit, and fun-loving nature.

Mark was first and foremost a loving, committed husband and dedicated father who made the care of his family his highest priority. He is survived by his loving wife, Audrey; his three children, Mark, Matthew, and Katelyn; his brothers Leon and Martin and their spouses Helena and Patricia; and by loving nieces and nephews.

Family and friends are invited to visit Wednesday 4:00-8:00 PM at the funeral home. The Funeral will be held on Thursday, 9:00 AM from the William J. Leber Funeral Home, 15 Furnace Rd., Chester. Then to St. Luke Parish in Long Valley for a 10:00 AM Mass of Christian Burial. Burial will follow.

In lieu of flowers, a donation in his memory to St. Luke Parish, 265 West Mill Road, P.O. Box 416Long Valley, NJ 07853 or a charity of one's choice would be appreciated.





Laura Dean January 25, 2010
I keep trying and trying to put down words and they just won't come. Mark and I were only 8 days apart in age which was always a bond in my heart. Our family is so wonderful in that you don't have to talk to each other every day or even every month to love each other and know how much you are loved. I will miss Mark greatly. I know that God must have a greater purpose for him, though it is hard to imagine what that could be. My love to Audrey, Mark, Matthew, and Katie. I know you will all be strong for and take care of one another in the days to come. And we will be right there with you. Rest in peace, Mark... You will be sorely missed.

Ann Ciraldo January 25, 2010
Mark was my accountant for many years. He was very generous with his time even when he was very busy. He will be missed by all. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family. The death of one so young is especially hard to understand.

ron De Mott January 25, 2010
So very sorry for your loss you are in my prayers

Lori Bautz January 25, 2010
Audrey and Family, I am so sorry for you loss. You are in my thoughts.

Otto Freund January 26, 2010
I met Mark 9 years ago. He was a caring person from day one and was always willing to take the time to talk with me. He actually listened but I guess that was what made him Mark. He will be missed by everyone.

ALEX FREDA January 26, 2010
My deepest condolences to Audrey & the family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. I will miss Mark's fun loving nature and good heartedness alot.

Sue & Jim McGinnis January 26, 2010
My husband and I have been friends with Mark and Audrey for several years now. Katie & our daughter, Julianne are best buddies. It is so difficult to believe that such a wonderful man, husband to Audrey, father to his children and friend to all that knew him is gone. I guess that we just have to have faith that he is now resting in peace and on a new and wonderful journey. He will be missed terrbily.

Tomi January 26, 2010
I will remember his smile-although I know whenever he visited our office it was not where he wanted to be-but he would still smile. We will miss him.

Tomi January 26, 2010
I will remember his smile-although I know whenever he visited our office it was not where he wanted to be-but he would still smile. We will miss him.

Drew Ciraldo January 26, 2010
My heartfelt sympathy to Mark's entire family. I've known Mark through my long time friend George Frizzell for the past eight years, during that time Mark has helped my entire family with tax preparation and valuable advice. Mark was always patient and kind. I remember when he arranged a surprise birthday party for George's 70th at a friends house on Kemah Lake and how many of their mutual friends enjoyed and respected him. God must have needed him for something very important to have taken him from us so soon.

Doug & Dawn Schley January 26, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to Mark's loving family.

The Callas family January 26, 2010
So sad to hear this news. Our deepest condolences to Audrey, and the kids. Mark was truly one of the good guys. He always helped out on the ball fields, constantly smiling, forever generous with his time and friendship. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joan Cummins January 26, 2010
Audrey & family- So very sorry for your loss. The few encounters I had with Mark while his mother was in our care here @ Paragon were geniune & so very loving. God give you all strength during this difficult time.

Terry McKeon January 26, 2010
Mark came on board as our accountant at Special Homes of NJ in 2002 during a difficult time of transition. He stood by me and with his help we made great strides. As a non-profit agency we relied on his advice and counsel. We're in great shape these days and he is a part of that success. He always got back to you and followed through with everything he promised. I could tell from little side conversations as we were pouring over "the books" how much he was connected to and valued his family. We surely will miss him. Our condolences from all the residents & staff at Special Homes.

Maryann Paciulli January 27, 2010
We will miss you,my friend. Love, Maryann& Nick

Tom and Alissa Papa January 27, 2010
We love you and will miss you! XXOO

Parkinson family January 27, 2010
We are so proud to have known you and to have been able to call you "friend". You were some man!! So considerate of others, and always willing to help at the drop of a hat. We will miss you, but know that you are still around us, even if we can't see you. Much love until we meet again. xxx

Keri Squiers January 27, 2010
He was a dedicated soul---dedicated to everyone and genuine.

Mark & Heather Phillips January 27, 2010
Audrey, whilst we didn't get the chance to meet your lovely husband Mark, we know what a special loving relationship you shared. We feel your pain. Our thoughts are with you and your children.

Mike & Josie Nemeth January 27, 2010
Our deepest sympathies to Audrey and family. Mark was a great guy with a fun loving spirit. We still can't believe that he is no longer here. We will treasure the memories of the time spent with him. He will surely be missed by all that were fortunate enough to have known him. You are in our prayers.

Andrea and Jason Katz January 27, 2010
Audrey, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Let Mark's passing be for a blessing. Always, Andrea, Jason, Bekah, Rayna, and Shelly

Barbara Vrahnos January 27, 2010
My husband and I were client's of Mark. And although we saw him only once a year at tax time; it was as if we saw him just yesterday. He had the remarkable ability to remember conversations from a year ago! We will never forget his big smile and warm and gentle ways. He will truly be missed!

George Frizzell January 27, 2010
Mark and I had a special bond. I liked him from the first time we met. It was an easy choice to offer him the opportunity to purchase my accounting practice and for the first time he would be the owner of an accounting firm, Frizzell and Kafafian, LLC. He added so much to the practice and it grew because of his infectious personality and the way he treated the clients. He was an excellent accountant and my long term clients were pleased with the way he handled their accounting and tax compliance needs. My children had no interest in following their father into the accounting field. My adopted son did and he will be missed.

Skip Bauer January 27, 2010
I will miss you Mark...you truly are and forever will be a best friend! Skip

Mary Bobbe January 27, 2010
The news of Mark's passing sadden me deeply. Though I worked with him for only a short time I quickly realized what a fine person he was. Audrey, my prayers and with you and the children.

Sue & Jay Romania January 27, 2010
Mark will truly be missed by all who knew him. We considered him our friend. He is in our prayers

Dave Demarest January 27, 2010
You will be missed brother. At least we have the memories to keep us going....we love you.

Mary Jo Kennedy January 27, 2010
Dear Audrey & children, So very sorry to hear Mark has passed away. I can't imagine the heartbreak you must all be feeling. You were lucky to have such a devoted husband and father. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Sincere sympathy, Mary Jo Kennedy

Art & Marlene deVre January 27, 2010
Our sympathy to the whole family. Mark was a great friend and relative to everyone and will be deeply missed. We will pray for you and the family to keep the strength and remember all the good times.

Dave Cammarata January 28, 2010
Mark and his family will be in our prayers; we pray for the repose of this wonderful man's soul. I grew up with Mark and was fortunate to call him friend during my formative years. We lost contact when Mark relocated from Hasbrouck Heights. Like Mark, I am a CPA by trade and always knew Mark would some day achieve success in life. I'm happy to have known him and his family. With God's Blessing, David & Olivia Cammarata

Susan Bowles Fields January 28, 2010
Dear Audrey, Mark, Matthew and Katelyn, I am so sorry. I am Mark's second cousin and have fond memories of spending time with him and his family. I was eight years old when my family moved away. His smile and easy going personality will always be remembered. I always thought that we would connect someday. Unfortunately we never have that chance. He will be sadly missed. God Bless Love Susan Bowles Fields

Sharon Zofcin January 28, 2010
I only recently had the pleasure of meeting the Kafafian family, they immediately made me feel welcome and special whenever I was in their company. Mark was a kind soul and will be missed. Audrey, I know this journey will be challenging, please take comfort and strength from the wonderful family you and he had together. Your children are a joy and a source of great strength for you. I know their love will get you through this difficult time. Please don't hesitate to call on me. May God give him eternal rest and may Mark's soul rest in peace. Prayers and Blessings... Sharon Zofcin

Trish Linhart January 28, 2010
I work at Lake Mohalk Golf Club where Mark's brother Leon is a member. Mark came to the resturant for lunch quite often with Leon. He was always a pleasure to serve and like many others, will always remember his smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

eric billing January 29, 2010
mark you will be missed by all airmark pools

Lisa Worts January 29, 2010
The past few days have been the saddest of my life…Mark you have been such a dear friend to me for as long as I can remember…I am going to miss you so much…your smile, your laugh and your gentle and caring soul…I pray now for strength for Audrey and your beautiful children… may your love and precious memories help them get through this difficult time. You will always hold a special place in my heart…you my friend had a “Heart of Gold!” I am so very thankful to have had you in my life…

Patlen family January 30, 2010
Mark was a great person always happy.We will all miss him.Darren ,Don,Darlene and Don sr.

Craig Lordigyan February 5, 2010
From my family to yours - God Bless you and your family. It's hard to believe that you're gone. You were a true friend indeed. We will remember you always. The Lordigyan Family

Paul Cammarata May 26, 2010
My brother and I grew up with Mark in Hasbrouck Heights and we have fond memories of him. We will miss him and I pray that we will all see him again some day with Jesus. God Bless you Mark.